Reading this classic and interesting tale about a very poor boy who becomes rich and serves as Mayor of London three times was a pleasure. My favourite character was Dick Whittington because of his presence of mind, honesty and diligence. I would suggest this lovely book to other kids who enjoy rags-to-riches tales. Enjoyable to read. It was really interesting to know in the end that how much wealth cat would bring in Dick Whittington’s life that changed his fortune. He became rich and successful just because of his hard work.

“Children are tough, though we tend to think of them as fragile. They have to be tough. Childhood is not easy. We sentimentalize children, but they know what’s real and what’s not. They understand metaphors and symbols. If children are different from us, they are more spontaneous. Grown-up lives have become overlaid with dross.”

Maurice Bernard Sendak never lied. To his reader base. To himself. To the art of the writing. Very true, very honest, very pure in his expression; Sendak is one of the most respected American children’s authors ever lived. Along with being an illustrator, he wrote and expressed the hardships of a child. The worries of the immensely complex and layered inner journey of childhood are conveyed with simplicity and purity.

Born on June 10, 1928 in Brooklyn, New York, United States; Sendak majorly wrote about things that characterized his own childhood. The deeper, darker, intense life experiences.

‘Where the wild things are’, adventures of a boy named Max, is one of Sendak’s most popular books. His very first book (which he had also illustrated), ‘Kenny’s Window’ was an account of his own childhood and the experiences he had growing up. ‘Very far away’, ‘The sign on Rosie’s door’, ‘The Nutshell library’, ‘In the night kitchen’, ‘Seven Little monsters’, ‘Outside over there’ happen to be a few amongst the long list of titles in Sendak’s illustrious body of work.

“I can still remember the smell and feel of the bindings of those first two books”, Sendak affectionately refers to his very first reads ‘The Prince and The Pauper’ and ‘The three musketeers’.

Sendak wrote with music playing in the backdrop. Influence of which is visible in his writings. He could hear it, sense it, feel it. Writing fantasies allowed him to explore and feel liberation and translate it over to his reader base, little kids who took his fantastical imagination to another level with their own imagination. Sendak had once said “It is through fantasy that children achieve catharsis. It is the best means they have for taming Wild Things.”

Sendak also went on to make films and conduct exhibitions of his illustrations. He dabbled into multiple different forms and mediums of content creation. And justified almost all of it convincingly.

Hans Christian Andersen award, Astrid Lindgren memorial award, Laura Ingalls Wilder Medal are a few amongst the countless laurels Sendak has been bestowed upon.

“A letter from a seven-year-old boy encourages me to think that I have reached children as I had hoped. He wrote: ‘How much does it cost to get to where the wild things are? If it is not expensive, my sister and I want to spend the summer there. Please answer soon.” This is the impact Maurice Sendak’s writings have had upon children. It made them think. It made them imagine.

We are there again. Exploring yet another way to keep ourselves engaged with the beautiful fictional world. Something that helps us stay alive. And imagine. We are there again. Picking a new book from a new master of this artform.

Happy reading!

It was Diwali vacation and the whole family was together. We were chatting and discussing the way my daughter speaks openly and freely even to strangers. She has made a lot of friends due to her social nature. But then, in the end, everyone was telling her not to reveal so much information to strangers and to be so friendly to everyone. The little four-year-old was unable to understand why everyone was forbidding her. In a sweet voice, she said, ” But I talk to everyone because I love everyone!”

That’s when I started thinking about what her little mind must be thinking. It’s truly understood that with so many dangers around us we tend to be so cautious about who the children talk to, whom they are meeting, and what they are sharing. In the process, we forget to enjoy the innocence behind it. We forget to concentrate on the little joys of the childhood that they are having.

While restricting them for their safety, are we restricting them unintentionally for being loving and kind to everyone? Should we teach them to play life by the rules or let them play by their heart? Their instinct tells them to go for the latter and by restricting them we are robbing them of so many different experiences that they will have. Aren’t we the ones to teach them in moral science books to be kind and to love every living being around them?

Wasn’t this a way of life till the last few generations?

Having more than one kid in the family left the parents with a lot of responsibility, but at the same time, the kids were left alone to explore their world in their way. More than offering them air-conditioned schools and cars wasn’t the earlier generation exposed to life more than these kids by walking or cycling home and meeting different people?

So picking up from this incident I let my daughter explore some more. As I told you she loves interacting with people and she is very attached to the house help that we have. She wanted to see where she lived, so I let her go with her grandma. She had a whole new experience. She was unable to understand how the doors of all the houses were kept open all the time? She was amazed at the way children fleeted from one house to the other as if they owned the whole place. She had so many questions about the way they lived. After satisfying all her curiosities, she went off to play with the kids. She visited a few other houses and met people. She played for a long time with the children, enjoyed a hearty meal, and eventually promised everyone that she will be back the next day. Since it was late a few people from the locality came to drop her home and she invited them inside as she didn’t want the day to end.

She loved the experience more than anything. If I would have taken her to the mall, she would have bought a few things, eaten some junk food, something which she would forget eventually. She would have asked for more next time but here she experienced love that would be with her forever. She experienced a new world where people live in coherence with lots of love and understanding.

I decided to find a golden middle and tone down the rules a little. The world is hers to explore and I am just a medium to channel her to different kinds of exposures. Letting her experience the world through her lenses and not through mine is what will matter in the long run.

Mother, why can’t you understand ? I am not arguing , merely stating my point of view.

You would never understand the issues we Gen Z youngsters face.

Parents would never realize the peer pressure we have to endure.

Aren’t these some familiar dialogues heard in homes where teenagers reside? The language and tone might be different, the message is the same. Teenagers feel that they and their parents are at the opposite ends of the continuum when it comes to managing in today’ s world.

The teenage years can be a test of relations for both the kids and the parents. Adolescence is a period of rapid physical, emotional, and social changes, which can sometimes lead to conflict and misunderstandings within the parent-child relationship. As the mother of a teenager I often face challenging situations where I have to adopt innovative methods to come to a consensus. So let me share my strategies that helped me foster a better and so to say a “HEP” or “COOL” relation with my ever demanding teenage daughter.

1. Communication is the key: Establishing open lines of communication is crucial during the teenage years. My personal experiences made me realize that most of the time all that the child wants is a patient listener. They need someone who would make them feel that their thoughts, opinions and views matter. That the listener won’t judge right away. Being such a listener would foster trust and strengthen the bond.
2. Set Clear Boundaries and Expectations: In this age the rebellion mode is at its peak. Most of the things asked of or told to them are met with resistance or reasons of why they should not be done. While the child fathoms that he / she has become a know it all, they still need our guidance and support. They must be made to realize that freedom to do certain things does not mean abdicating all responsibilities. Be it helping with household chores or maintaining one’s room , clear communication of the same would help them realize their rights and responsibilities. It would be advisable to set these things by involving them from the beginning. This gives them a sense of ownership and choosing tasks that they would love, thus making things easier for all.
3. Choosing to let go: We might not agree to many things that today’s generation yearns for. Being the elder in the relationship, it’s prudent that we let things go and have them their way at times. A small acceptance of their attitude or activity goes a long way in fostering a cordial bond.
4. Empathy is the way: It plays a pivotal role in understanding and connecting with your teenager. Do not make them feel that their opinions do not matter. Acknowledge their emotions, validate their experiences, and try to see situations from their perspective. Empathy fosters mutual respect and helps build a supportive relationship. A simple experience of me showing a positive attitude towards my daughter’s current music interests brought me into the category of cool moms that are ready to learn from their kids. Going further I did realize that while I was not aware of the genre of music enjoyed by her, it was indeed refreshing.
5. Bolster their self esteem by assigning tasks : Today’s teens possess great skills, knowledge and are exposed to multitude of technologies as compared to our times. We must ensure that we instill confidence in them about using these to carry out tasks successfully. This would boost their self esteem and make them develop a positive attitude about self. They need opportunities to develop their independence and take on responsibilities. We must be the facilitators for it.
6. Discussion is the way forward: Involve them in day to day issues and seek solutions from them. This works two ways. It makes them aware of issues faced by the family and they actively seek to mitigate it thus making positive contributions.
7. Acknowledge that they need their space : They may have differing opinions and desires from us. Many times all they want is to be left alone while they deal with their issues. Give them their space and time. This allows them to trust you. Eventually they seek your guidance if they are unable to sort out their issues. Do not become a helicopter parent and dent their space.
8. Encourage Healthy Coping Mechanisms: Adolescence can be a stressful time, and teenagers may experiment with various coping mechanisms. Encourage healthy outlets such as engaging in physical activities, pursuing hobbies, practicing mindfulness, or seeking support from trusted friends, mentors, or counselors.
9. What you are, makes them seek what they want to be : Our behavior and attitudes significantly influence our teenager’s development. Pursue and practice the values and behaviors you want to see in them, such as effective communication, emotional regulation, and respectful relationships. Show them that you are continuously learning and growing as well.

Coping with teenage kids is easier said than done. It requires you to be patient, understanding and open -minded. You may face hurdles, rebellion, frustration, kids being incommunicado and much more. Yet, I have learnt that it’s just a phase. A phase, where kids enter in a completely new space torn between the desire to be completely independent yet looking over their shoulders to ensure that the parents are around if they need them.

Although I have identified the above learnings, I myself at times am unable to follow them. It’s still a learning curve for me too as a parent. However, I am sure of one responsibility towards my teenage daughter – to be there for her no matter what.

Let us help them discover this world, let us help them tread this path of teenage phase by being present and offer our support when they seek it. Let us ride along with them and discover their world by letting go of some of our inhibitions. Let us trust our upbringing and help them spread their wings to face their adult life in a few years time with confidence and positivity.

India, with its rich cultural heritage and diverse traditions, has always been a treasure trove of melodies. Music holds a special place in the hearts of its citizens, reflecting the tapestry of its society. From the vibrant beats of Bollywood to the enchanting classical ragas, India’s musical landscape is as diverse as its people. Let’s embark on a melodious journey and explore the various music kinds that resonate throughout the nation.

Imagine walking down a street in a metropolitan city in India. One can hear a cacophony of sounds from different kinds of horns, be it a robust one from a jeep or a sweeter, shriller one from a bike. If it is early in the morning or late in the evening, the toll of Mandir bells and aartis is complemented by the tolls from a nearby church, the azaan from a mosque, and Gurbani from a Gurudwara Sahib. Add to it the chime of a school bell, the melodious voice of proverbial Pied Pipers with their flutes or other goodies hatched to the back of their cycles. In India, melody is an intrinsic part of life starting from a mother’s lullaby to the chants and prayers through every important occasion of one’s life.

India’s musical heritage is rooted in ancient traditions that date back thousands of years. The country’s classical music, divided into two main streams—Hindustani and Carnatic—encompasses a vast repertoire of ragas, talas, and intricate improvisation. Hindustani classical music, popular in North India, is known for its soulful renditions, while Carnatic classical music, prominent in South India, is characterized by intricate compositions and complex rhythmic patterns. These classical traditions are nurtured through dedicated gurus (teachers) and rigorous training, ensuring the preservation of this musical legacy.

Beyond classical music, India boasts a thriving film industry, popularly known as Bollywood, which produces the largest number of movies globally. Bollywood music is a dynamic fusion of various styles, incorporating elements of traditional Indian music, Western pop, rock, and folk melodies. These songs, often accompanied by elaborate dance sequences, serve as a vehicle for storytelling and evoke a wide range of emotions, making them immensely popular among the masses. Bollywood music transcends boundaries and has gained international recognition, with fans from different corners of the world grooving to its infectious beats.

Music from regional film industries such as Tollywood’s Naatu Naatu has even gone and won Indian an Oscar.

In addition to classical and film music, India’s diverse cultural landscape is adorned with a myriad of folk music traditions. Each region of the country boasts its own distinct folk music styles, reflecting the unique heritage and customs of the local communities. Baul music from West Bengal, Rajasthani folk songs, Powada & Natya Sangeet from Maharashtra, and the vibrant Garba music from Gujarat are just a few examples of the diverse folk traditions that dot the Indian musical map. These folk melodies, often accompanied by traditional instruments like the dholak, tabla, sitar, and harmonium, celebrate the joys, sorrows, and everyday experiences of the people.

India’s regional music industries are also flourishing, with each state showcasing its unique musical heritage. From the soulful Sufi music of Rajasthan to the foot-tapping Bhangra beats of Punjab, from the devotional songs of Maharashtra to the melodious folk tunes of Assam, every region has its distinct musical identity. These regional music industries provide a platform for talented artists to express their creativity and connect with audiences on a more localized level.

Religion also plays a significant role in India’s musical heritage. The country is home to various faiths, each with its own devotional music forms. Bhajans and kirtans, devotional songs in praise of Hindu deities, fill the air during religious festivals and ceremonies. Qawwali, a form of Sufi devotional music, enchants listeners with its powerful vocals and mesmerizing rhythms. Similarly, Sikhism has its own devotional music tradition called Shabad Kirtan, which is centered around the recitation of verses from the Guru Granth Sahib, the holy scripture of Sikhism. The church hymns and choir songs hold a sweetness and musical richness of their own. These devotional music forms not only serve as a means of spiritual connection but also foster a sense of communal harmony among diverse groups of people.

India has also embraced Western music genres, giving rise to a vibrant independent music scene. Pop, rock, jazz, and fusion bands have emerged, experimenting with blending traditional Indian melodies with contemporary sounds. This fusion of styles creates a unique musical landscape where artists like A.R. Rahman, who seamlessly blends Indian and Western elements, has gained global recognition.

Even western musicians have been influenced by Indian classical music, the most famous of those being the Beatles. Punjabi music too has witnessed a tremendous surge in popularity, not only within India but also internationally. Punjabi songs, characterized by catchy beats, energetic rhythms, and lively lyrics, have become a rage on global music charts and in clubs around the world.

As music becomes more accessible to all, there is also free lending and borrowing between genres and regions, giving way to a new era of music. This is more so with the advent of digital platforms and social media, the music industry in India has become more accessible and inclusive. Independent artists are finding new avenues to showcase their talent and gain recognition without the need for traditional record labels. Online music streaming platforms have revolutionized the way people consume music, providing a wide range of choices and allowing listeners to discover new artists and genres.

In conclusion, the music of India is a vibrant tapestry that weaves together classical traditions, Bollywood hits, regional melodies, rap, and Punjabi beats. It reflects the diversity and cultural richness of the nation while continuously evolving and embracing new influences. From the soul-stirring classical ragas to the foot-tapping rhythms of Punjabi music, India’s melodies resonate with people around the world. As the music industry continues to evolve, embracing technology and new genres, India’s musical heritage will continue to captivate and inspire audiences for generations to come.